You can move in with the other guy as long as he is not a "danger to the children," e.g. drug user, convicted sex offender. You should go get formal custody order in place. You can go to the court house, obtain the packet, fill it out and serve it. While you may not "want" child support, the custody order is crucial because as it stands now, without a custody order, if the father comes and takes the children, there are no contempt actions or criminal actions for you to pursue.
Answered on Feb 03rd, 2014 at 7:29 AM