Technically, you are constructively in contempt for violating the order in the past. However, because your son is not 18, the custody papers are currently not enforceable. If your boyfriend has lived with you for the last six years and your ex has known about it and hasn't complained before now, I seriously doubt the judge would punish you. I would argue your ex has tacitly consented to your current boyfriend living with you since he has known about it and hasn't complained before now.
Answered on Jan 02nd, 2015 at 3:40 AM