Obtaining a child support order and collecting the funds are separate issues. The question of whether or not he is working only has some impact on how much a court will order him to pay, but unless he is totally unable to work and has no income, the will order him to pay something. Collecting what he has been ordered to pay is a totally different problem because if he doesn't have any income or assets the only thing a court can do is order him to get a job or put him in jail for contempt - neither of which creates any money. If you never file to establish a child support order, however, there will never be any incentive for him to do anything, so you should attempt to get some kind of support order and worry about collecting later.
Answered on Nov 29th, 2012 at 4:58 AM