It is possible, though perhaps unusual, to collect child support in this situation. When a parent pays child support in Ohio, there is a 2% processing fee, so by collecting child support in this situation you are giving the state 2% in exchange for the security provided by a state order compelling the father to provide support to you. If he is inclined to be uncooperative in terms of sharing the expenses, or if the relationship is unstable and you think there is a good chance the relationship might not last long, it may be justified. I have seen several couples who have done this. One of them does it because the father owes child support for other kids as well, so by leaving the order in place he can make sure that more of his income comes to support his household instead of more going to support the kids he does not live with to the detriment of those in his household.
Answered on Apr 28th, 2011 at 10:38 AM