Can I divorce my husband with no proper child paperwork if we have a child?

If you are seeking a divorce and you do have a child with your husband, you need to have at least some basic provisions in the judgment covering custody, parenting time and child support. Also, while in Oregon you can agree to joint custody, that is usually a bad idea. The best approach would be to agree with your husband as to which of you should have sole custody of your child and how much parenting time the non-custodial parent should have. You can also reach an agreement for no child support given your husband's disability.