Your inquiry raises a lot of questions. How long were you away, that all of those things (canceled tickets, expired residency card, etc.) could have happened?
In any event, if you know what county your husband is in, it is pretty simple to find out whether a divorce complaint has been filed there. You do not need to be here to contest such a divorce, but it would be far easier to do so if you have an attorney actively participating in the case.
For background, see http://willicklawgroup.com/divorce/. But what you really need is to hire a lawyer to protect your interests.
Answered on Feb 08th, 2015 at 2:56 PM