Your question makes me wonder if you are in the state of Washington. I say this because Washington is what is called a "no fault" state. What that means is that, unlike some other states, you do not need "grounds" to get a divorce. All you really have to be willing to do is to swear that the marriage is "irretrievably broken." If you can do that, then, you are going to get a divorce. After that, it is just a matter of dividing up debts, property, and children, if any.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 7:30 AM