I do not understand why you continue to pay child support, and hide the fact that the child lives with you from ORS, a state agency. Arguably, that could be considered fraud. Plus why are you paying when you should be receiving?
What you need to do is change the custody and support orders to reflect reality. Then the father's threats would be empty, and you would be receiving support.
I can help you in this matter. I have handled a number of cases like this, and been successful. As the child has been living with you for two years, that fact should be easy to prove and would support changing custody to you, as well as granting you child support.
There is no reason to wait, and suffer through more threats or pay more child support.
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Answered on Nov 11th, 2016 at 7:54 AM