First of all, the mother of the children is presumed to be entitled to their custody. If she is not around or available, she is entitled to notice of any action you may bring seeking custody of the children. As a girlfriend, how have you presented yourself to the schools the children are enrolled in? You can seek custody of the children or guardianship of them. Each court will inquire as to where the parent are and may require you to give notice to other relatives in addition to the parents.
Answered on May 17th, 2013 at 1:14 PM