Can I just do a do it yourself divorce since I do not want anything?

Yes, you can. The procedure for doing it when you do not know where the other person lives, however, can be very complicated. I would recommend getting an attorney to help you with it because if you mess it up, you may have to start over again completely and it costs $225 every time you file a new complaint for Divorce. You can go back to your maiden name. Include it in your request for relief in the divorce complaint. You will have to go to the Clerk of Court after the judgment is entered to fill out forms for the name change.