Can I keep my ex from coming to extracurricular activities during my parenting time?

Review your Judgment of Divorce and Settlement Agreement, if you have one.  Is your ex-husband violating any provisions of the Judgment or Settlement Agreement?  If so, one option is to file a motion and ask the Court to enforce the terms of your Judgment and Settlement Agreement. You may consider explaining, in writing, to your ex-husband your and Nick's concern and asking him not to attend extracurricular activities that do not occur during his parenting time.  If he refuses and continues to attend activities, you may consider filing a motion with the Court asking the Court to enter an order preventing your ex-husband from attending extracurriclar activities that do not occur during his parenting time.  If you do not feel comfortable explaining the concern and asking your ex-husband in writing, you may file a motion without doing so.  Another option is to retain an attorney to reach out to your ex-husband to discuss the concerns and inquire if your ex-husband will enter into an agreement with you that he will not attend activities that do not occur during his parenting time and/or to retain an attorney to file the motion on your behalf and represent you at oral argument in Court on the motion. NJ Courts provide a post-judgment motion packet to litigants who choose to represent themselves in Court.  The link to the packet is:  http://www.judiciary.state.nj.us/prose/10483_post_jdg_kit.pdf The attorneys at Weinberger Law Group offer a free one-hour initial consultation.  During your consultation, you may discuss your concerns and other options available to you.  Call today to schedule your free initial consultation - (855) 548-1544.