The only "time limit" is the final orders date in the divorce case. All property issues need to be agreed to or decided by the judge at the same time and in connection with the final decree dissolving the marriage. There is absolutely no connection between who files for divorce (i.e. starts the divorce case) and when you can make your "requests" concerning property. A 401k is at least partly marital property and all marital property must be divided fairly. Whether or not you can get half of the current balance depends on the whole big picture of the financial situation. If the divorce case is not over and done with, whoever told you were no longer entitled to a fair share of the marital property doesn't know what they are talking about. If the divorce is final, however, and the 401k was not dealt with, it may be possible to reopen the property distribution. If that is the situation, you need to consult an attorney about how to re-open the case.
Answered on Sep 01st, 2011 at 8:05 PM