If your former spouse is in arrears on his child support obligation, he can be found in violation of the court order setting the support amount. If you withhold visitation, then you can be found in violation of the court order setting the visitation schedule. Your remedy for his violation on child support is not to violate a different part of the order. Your remedy is to return to court and ask the court to enforce its order for support, and seek your legal fees and case expenses, which exist only because of his violation of the existing order, to be paid by your former spouse.
Answered on Feb 18th, 2013 at 7:55 PM