Unfortunately, there is no legal action for having a bad father. You should consult with a lawyer if your father is holding money that belongs to you. You may have a legal action for conversion.
For the money, you should talk with an attorney to determine if/how to attempt to receive that. For the other, unfortunately, there are limits to what the law can do. We cannot force people to be good parents/grandparents/good people. Moral obligations are not always reflected in the law, and this would be an example of that - there is no law that requires him to be present at the birth. Best wishes.
The simple answer is yes but this question needs more facts. Additionally, it seems you would sue for primary physical custody rights in the event there is an issue with alcohol. You will need to consult with counsel.
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