can i take my child and move to another state if i am not married to the father

If the father agrees, you can take the child out of state. If the father refuses, you can make an application to the family court where you live with the child for leave to relocate. The court will consider many factors in ultimately determining what is in the best interests of your child, and based on that will grant or deny your application. Regardless of where you live, if you split up with your ex and have custody of your child, the child's father must pay you child support- it's the law in every state.