He has manic depression and is not on medication for it. Recently been arrested for domestic assault causing bodily injury (which is why we are divorced). He hasn't seen the kids in three months and plans to sign his rights over but he cannot afford a lawyer. I don't feel safe if he were to come for his visitation with the kids.
Based on these facts, you can get orders to restrict his visitation. You will have to file a motion with the court. He cannot just sign over his rights. If neither one of you have the money to hire a lawyer, go to the Family Law Facilitator at the court house, and ask for help.
Is he working? Is he seeking medical help? Does he have any sort of relationship with the children? Are you receiving government assistance? The court is unlikely to terminate the rights solely because of his medical condition. Also, if you are receiving government assistance, the state will want him on the hook for child support. You might also. However, talk with your divorce attorney and see what the possibilities might be.
The law favors having two parents for the children. Generally, he cannot relinquish or sign away his rights unless you have a current spouse/stepfather willing to adopt, with whom the children have resided for more than six months. You can visit with a lawyer about other options, such as a protection order or modification of his parenting time, to ensure safety.
In Utah: You cannot terminate parental rights because of a parent's disability, but you can seek termination if the disability causes the parent to be a danger to the health, safety, and/or life of the child. So if your ex-husband suffers from manic depression and won't/can't be treated, you should succeed in terminating parental rights if you petition for termination in court.
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