Yes. The child's father and mother have equal rights to custody, until a custody order is made by the court. You should consider pursuing a custody order, and possibly a child support order if he isn't paying support. These types of threats can be a form of domestic violence because you are in fear of asserting your right to establish custody. It sounds like a pattern, since you have made and withdrawn four cases. Without a custody order, the police have no way to determine where the child actually resides or which parent should keep the child. Good luck.
Answered on Jan 04th, 2015 at 3:43 PM