Oh, how I hate it when people tell me, "I can't afford to go to court to enforce my rights." Fine, then. Don't go to court. Don't seek relief through the only channel available to you. Just keep getting shafted and indulging in self-pity. You have your reward. Or you can make a plan and take action. First, seeking relief from child support that you believe you are no longer obligated to pay does not require that you immediately go to court. You first have to prepare paperwork that you file with the court. If you cannot find the time to file the documents with the court personally, you can either mail them to the court or hire an attorney to prepare and file these documents for you. Or you can prepare all the documents for filing with the court and ask a friend or family member to take them to court and file them on your behalf. It could very well be that by filing a motion or petition for relief with the court, that your ex-wife will agree that you no longer have to pay child support in the matter can be taken care of without either of you ever setting foot in the courthouse. But if that doesn't happen, again you can hire an attorney to do most of the work for you so that you spend as little time away from work as possible. If it turns out that going to court for hearing proves utterly unavoidable, then surely you can take a vacation day or even have your lawyer issue a subpoena compelling you to appear in court, which most employers will honor without firing you.
Answered on Sep 10th, 2013 at 3:48 PM