First things first: notify your divorce lawyer. If you did not have one then, find one now. Apart from that, closely review the divorce decree and any agreements which were incorporated into it. She might be violating one or the other and that would suggest you file a motion for contempt of court. (While emptying a 529 account might count as embezzlement, the authorities are unlikely to be interested in pursuing it and after all, what good would a criminal charge do? She probably cannot restore the money.) Good Luck.
Answered on May 21st, 2015 at 4:11 PM