I think I answered a question directly from the lady involved. The problem is much less whether the recording is lawful, as to how it will look in court. It will look awful for the woman who did the recording. And it will not help her in a divorce at all. Most states, including this one, are now no-fault as to divorce, so demonstrating that one's spouse has been tomcatting around gains you absolutely nothing. Advise your friend to consult a lawyer who can review ALL the facts with her, and help her make the best decision.
Answered on May 20th, 2015 at 3:47 PM