On the facts you state, unless there is more, there is no way on God's green earth that a father is going to get 50/50 parenting time with an 11 year old that he left for two months.If he has a history of domestic abuse he is probably not going to get joint legal, much less joint physical. Get a lawyer. I do not know your circumstances, but do not try to do this on your own. If money is tight, I know we take small retainers and then monthly payment plans, and I know other lawyers do too. Also, there may be free services available to you if you cannot afford that. But protect yourself. You should not take this from him. You have a child to think about.
Answered on Jan 30th, 2012 at 3:16 PM