Custody is not the issue here. If you don't have a parenting plan you must get one. That will allocate time with the children between the two of you. It sounds like all you have is some sort of private agreement with the father. That is neither legally binding nor enforceable. It's the perfect way to set up this kind of manipulation. Get a parenting plan and order of child support.
Answered on Mar 26th, 2014 at 3:17 PM