Your mom has the right to dictate who is allowed in her home. If you want to date this person, you'll have to do that under her rules until you are 18.
Keep in mind your mom is trying to raise you and keep you safe - think about what you would do if you were a mom and your daughter was letting a much older boy over without supervision. Talk to your mom about responsible ways you can go on dates.
Answered on Oct 08th, 2015 at 12:32 PM