All divorces by definition have irreconcilable differences. It sounds like the house belongs to both of you, but both of you living in it while the divorce is pending sounds like a formula for disaster. If you want to stay in the house or want to go to couples counseling, make a motion for temporary orders and ask the court to order that. She is of course free to do the same. I suggest you see a lawyer and find a civil way of asking if she is willing to go to counseling. Just because you don't want the divorce doesn't mean she doesn't. Staying in the house together, does nothing but aggravate her further and potentially leads to violent behavior. Don't let that happen by staying on without a court order.
Answered on May 11th, 2015 at 5:20 PM