Her leaving the marriage is not usually relevant to the question of an award of alimony (now usually called 'maintenance.') If she is earning more than you, she would have to make an extraordinarily strong case for maintenance (e.g. by showing she is disabled and needs full-time nursing or something equally demanding). It is also possible that she, or her lawyer, is simply copying some form of petition they have seen which lists a number of demands and she might not be serious about that one. Find an experienced matrimonial lawyer. It's almost always worth the investment.
Answered on Sep 08th, 2015 at 12:28 PM