You should ask your own lawyer if you have one. If you do, you could seek attorney's costs from your wife. However, lawyers have many reasons to ask for adjournments that may not have anything to do with trying to "over charge" you. I don't know if you are paying for your wife's lawyer, or you are referring to extra money you have to pay your own attorney, or simply complaining about missing time from work.
Answered on Aug 28th, 2017 at 1:58 PM