First, check your Judgment. Find out if she really has full custody or if it's joint custody. Also, find out what the Judgment says about either party moving. Often, we will include that the other party give at least 45 days notice to the other party to allow time for the non-moving parent to bring a motion to change the custody and visitation based on the other parent's move. Time is of the essence, you want to make sure the children aren't relocated before you get to court. A move away case is amongst the most difficult cases for Judges to decide because it means one parent will not get to see the children regularly. You probably want to hire an attorney to make sure your case is heard and presented with all possible legal arguments presented on your behalf. The Judge will need to make a new determination about the best interest of the children, he/she will consider the law, which includes factors like the relationship between the children and each parent, the need for stability (same school, same friends vs. new state, new friends, new school), but the most difficult factor will be the result on the children of losing their current primary parent vs. losing the regular relationship they have with their secondary parent (or making their secondary parent their primary parent upon the move of the current primary parent). I recommend consulting with an attorney in your area to make sure you can either put forward your best case for primary custody or the very best visitation schedule possible.
Answered on Jan 23rd, 2013 at 3:21 PM