You will have a difficult path toward guardianship, let alone adoption. You would have to petrition a court and demonstrate that the mother abandoned the child for four years. While not impossible, the longer you wait in getting into court, the more time the mother, who has rights as the 'natural guardian', can assert control over the child and try to prove she is a 'fit' mother.
Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.- Upper West Side Family Lawyer
www.upperwestsidelawyer.com
Answered on Jan 08th, 2014 at 9:49 AM