You can file for divorce immediately at any time without even being separated such as you and your spouse. However, there is a mandatory 6 month wait period in California before a divorce can be finalized and the spouses returned to the status of single. Considering the length of your marriage, that fact that you have children, etc. I recommend you consult with an attorney regarding your divorce.
Answered on Sep 07th, 2012 at 12:38 PM