You are a legal stranger to the child. You can mess around with attempting to get your husband to sign some paper that might have questionable validity, or you can simply go to court.
However, if you go to court, understand that the State of Utah, DCFS, may get involved. You need to do two things: 1. Get qualified as a foster parent; and, 2. Find an experienced family law attorney to work with, and move forward with your case at court.
If you wish, my office may be able to assist.
Answered on Sep 14th, 2015 at 8:13 AM