Child custody and Spousal support question

I was married and we separated after a year of marriage. We have been separated for about a year now and I was served papers by my ex husband. In the papers he is seeking spousal support, and not sure what the guidelines would be since we were only together a year. He is going after equity on a house I purchased before we married, he is seeking my retirement from my job also. I am just wondering if he should be able to ask for all this after a year of marriage. We also have a 2 year old child together and his visitation has be on average 2-3 days a week and the days vary every week based on his work schedule. He now wants 3.5 days a week to make it 50/50. I want him to co parent with me but he works nights and lives with his parents. On the days he has our daughter he sleeps all day due to the father working nights and she spends the day with the grand parents. He deserves to see his daughter but I don't see the point of her not being with me and he sleeps all day then works all night.