I can't tell what question you are asking. If you don't care about the visits not happening, you should probably confirm in writing that, at his choice, he is not picking up the child for visitation going forward (keep a copy). For support, again, it is unclear what you are asking -- if you want help with collections, you should consult with a qualified family law specialist about mechanisms you can put into place to be sure you get what is owed, by wage assignment or otherwise. Meantime, see the materials posted at:
http://willicklawgroup.com/child-custody-and-visitation/
http://willicklawgroup.com/child-support/
Answered on May 23rd, 2015 at 2:49 PM