If this arrangement is truly by agreement, one of you should hire an attorney to draft the terms. You will still need to convince the judge that such an arrangement is in the best interests of the children. In addition, you will need to file 2 differenct lawsuits, one of the divorce/custody of the child of the marriage, and a separate one for the other child.
Answered on Oct 08th, 2018 at 6:55 AM