To begin with, your best bet is to get with an experienced family law attorney to really determine your risks, and your rights.
The answer on the house depends on detailed facts on timing, values of the house, and the like. But, there are other considerations that might be pertinent, such as the issue of your health, and the potential of some spousal support; allocation of other personal property; allocation of retirement benefits; and other such considerations, which might be used to offset any claims she raises against the house.
So, instead of sitting there looking for free advice, get moving to defend your rights and be proactive in moving your case forward, rather than waiting for her to do something.
Answered on Sep 15th, 2015 at 1:33 PM