The simple answer is that no, you cannot avoid court. I've written a blog on this, and the fact of the matter is that a divorce decree is a court order. So, you will have to “go to court”.
But, that does not mean that you have to fight, or have any conflict. You really should find an attorney you feel comfortable working with and make sure that you have covered all your bases (please see my blog on “Uncontested Divorces”). Then, with the attorney's help you can move forward with the divorce in a peaceful, and respectful atmosphere.
Answered on Jun 15th, 2015 at 9:17 AM