I would suggest that you hire an attorney to help you through this process. What you are trying to do is called a stepparent adoption. In order to sever the bio dad's rights you will have to prove that he had not had any meaningful contact for a year and that he has not paid for support for a year. He has to be served so that he can argue if he wants. An attorney can help shepherd you through this process so that you can effectively fight for your rights.
Answered on Oct 01st, 2012 at 1:02 PM