It is always better to have a custody order in place. I would go to the local court house and file for custody. If you receive any state assistance, the state will seek child support on your behalf. This will notify the father. It is best for you to have a custody order in place establishing yourself as the primary parent and limiting visitation unless and until the father establishes a regular relatonship with the child.
Answered on Jan 30th, 2014 at 10:03 PM