Yes, based on what you describe, you need a divorce. Holding yourself out as married to the federal government by filing taxes as married would likely place you into the category of someone who is common law married. Also, because you have children with this man, a divorce would give you the opportunity to make sure you receive a proper amount of child support for your children as well as your fair share of any community property you may have accumulated. I recommend a consultation with a local divorce attorney to talk about your specific circumstances.
Answered on Aug 28th, 2015 at 5:03 PM