It does not appear you are asking the right question because there is no legal reason for you to tell your girlfriend anything about your plans if she has decided to break up with you. But, if you are contemplating taking the child with you, you need to recognize that unless you have a court order establishing specific rights concerning the child, you could be accused of kidnapping. Because the child has only been gone from Colorado for a month, you could begin a court case for the allocation of parental responsibilities in Colorado and, possibly, force the child's return to Colorado. You need to consult an attorney right away to learn more about your options under the circumstances.
Answered on Sep 12th, 2012 at 2:19 PM