If the two of you don't agree on a settlement and get it finalized in a mutually agreeable manner, then there will either be a Default hearing or a Trial in order to go through the issues with the Judge and he/she will make the orders regarding child custody, visitation, child support, spousal support, division of all assets, and division of all debts). Both parties should be present to present their side of how they would like those issues finalized, but if one party does not want to participate, the the case will go forward without them, so long as they were served.
Answered on Jun 25th, 2013 at 4:57 PM