A lot of this answer will depend on the agreement, if any, between the parents. If the agreement requires, which most do, that you both keep your current contact information with each other, then the other parent is most likely in violation of a Court Order assuming that the agreement has been incorporated into a Court Order and no subsequent agreements and/or orders have invalidated it. If there is no agreement, then one should be put in writing and made a part of the Court's record and if there is no agreement between the parties, then there are certainly other options you can pursue, you should consult with a local attorney in person and as soon as possible prior to taking any action and/or omitting any action in regards to this matter.
Answered on Nov 05th, 2012 at 10:32 PM