How long has the child been under the impression that Mother's husband is his natural father? How long have you been out of this child's life? Mother can argue that you have abandoned this child, and go to court to eliminate any rights you may think you have for visitation.
If you wish to fulfill the role of a father you must immediately petition the court for custody and/or visitation rights by filing a Complaint for Custody.
In addition, the law has recently changed to allow you to file for child support if you wish to contribute financially to this child's welfare, and the Domestic Relations section of your court can arrange a low-cost DNA test to establish your paternity.
Answered on Sep 05th, 2012 at 8:21 AM