You cannot just take the deduction unless there was a triggering event in the agreement. Often, we will include langauge that you can take the deduction if the father is not current with support. If that is not in the agreement, or he is current, then you cannot take the deduction.
You should consider whether it would benefit you to file for modification if he is not taking the child as scheduled. If he got a reduction in support for agreeing to take the child 130 nights, then your support would go up if he took him less than 127 nights (the statutory cut-off).
If you woudl like to explore this option, you can contact an attorney. We do Modifications at my office.
Donna Miller
515-245-4300
Answered on Jan 30th, 2017 at 7:01 AM