You say that the court ordered a paternity test, which means to me that you have a case at court (or was it through the state office of recovey services). You need to review that case with your attorney to learn what parent-time rights, and child support obligations, were set. Those orders would govern your case.
If you do not have an attorney, you really should hire one to assist you. I have handle a number of such cases and know the complications that can arise. In that way, your fears can be addressed and if appropriate, orders set in concerning drinking and drug use.
If you desire, I can assist you. Call my office for a free 1/2 hour consultation. As you are 16, you may want to bring a parent with you.
David R. Hartwig
801-486-1715
Answered on Oct 23rd, 2016 at 9:51 AM