You will have to prove that father abandoned him and you will have to notify father of the action. If dad comes back and says he left because mom or you forced him away, that may get dicey. If, as is more likely, he just did not want to bother with a kid, then knowing that he will not have to pay child support may make everything go more smoothly. Regardless, I suggest you contact a local adoption attorney to help you through the process.
Answered on Mar 31st, 2014 at 6:54 PM