You would need to terminate his rights in order to allow your current husband to step into his place as the child's father. Due to the history of family violence, you may be able to keep your address and information protected, but you cannot do this without the biological father knowing. I don't think you will be able to do this without an attorney either. Your needs are far more complicated than you probably know and you really should seek the counsel of an attorney to make sure everything is done properly.
Answered on Mar 11th, 2013 at 5:52 PM