Provided that you are a resident of Ohio you can still file and get divorced. We serve her by what is called "publication". We can't dealt with alimony, property division and debts, but we can get you divorced.
You are right to be concerned about being able to contact your wife about filing the divorce. Lawyers call it Service of Process. We have ways of serving a party to a lawsuit who cannot be found. Please contact a lawyer to set up a divorce consultation to handle this important and technical area of the law. The preceding may not be taken as legal advice nor does it create a lawyer / client relationship. It is intended solely as entertainment.
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