First, check where he lives. Maybe he filed and you are divorced. It wouldn't necessarily be proper, but if you are divorced, does it matter that he didn't follow the rules? If you are still married, then you need to file for divorce where you are and have him served. If he cannot be located, and you made a valiant attempt to serve him, you may serve him be publication. Either way, if he doesn't answer, file for default judgment of divorce. If he does answer, then you will have to figure out what to do. Your best bet is to hire a local family law attorney to get you through the process.
Answered on Mar 19th, 2014 at 3:43 PM