How can I get a paper that says I am divorced to my ex husband?

Who gets married without proof they are divorced? Your story sounds like a complete load of crap. Most people in this situation are smart enough to say 'i honestly thought i was divorced' - you openly admit you got re-married without any idea or proof that you were divorced. What an all time dumb thing to do! Odds are you are not divorced from your first husband. You openly admit that '/in the system I am still under my ex husband. It shows divorce papers but are incomplete without a judge signature/'. To anyone with two brain cells to rub together, that screams, hey, I am probably not divorced. Moreover, merely asking for the divorce papers and not getting them would have clued most people in. So for you to say, '/It's the first I am hearing of this/.' has got to be just complete BS, no one is that oblivious - you either had to have at least suspected there was a possible problem or you are just too dumb to live! Anywho, if you were not divorced that means - you are now _not married_ to your second husband and you may be guilty of the crime of felony of bigamy. Further, it appears you got re-married so that '/my husband can get his pay and I can live my life comfortably/' - which to a prosecutor could mean you got remarried for fraudulent reasons and a prosecutor is not likely to believe your ridiculous story that you didn't know you weren't divorced and that you '/have done everything I could do/'. You need a lawyer and you need one right now. You need to have the research done to determine if you are divorced. If not, you are going to want to have an annulment of your second marriage - it will be void already anyway but you should consider an annulment just so there is paperwork. You then need to formally get divorced from your first husband a fairly simple process. Then if your second husband still wants to marry you, you can then get legally married and enjoy your new found meal ticket.