"Leaving the court out of it" makes the agreement unenforceable and if she changes her mind later, none of these payments will count since the old order stays in place until a new order is entered. So if an adjustment or modification is needed, do it properly, through the court. By the way, the judges order was not what the judge felt you should pay; the law requires imputing full time income when a person is voluntarily underemployed or unemployed.
Answered on Jun 08th, 2015 at 9:46 PM